Archive for the month of October, 2008

I am the Walrus… hello!

I’ll list our menu for the trip in NY real soon and will upload photos of our Halloween costumes, too, but meanwhile, let’s mix it up with something different…

Frank had the week off, after our trip, so we used that time off for a short trip to Quebec city’s Aquarium. It’s not the greatest aquarium out there (too much local fauna, we thought… and the St.Lawrence river doesn’t have colourful fish!), but we still recommend it for a family visit. They have seals, polar bears and walruses on site, so this part (outside) was real nice. We loved the walruses, which tank had a glass side for observation. There weren’t many visitors when we went, either, which was great.

So here are two walrus (and Xavier) videos. There’s also pictures in the album with our summer activities 2008 (not the right season, I know, but there’s one too many albums in our Picasaweb space, I’m trying to group stuff). It starts with the picture below. Happy viewing!

From Été 2008 – Vacances et sorties

These vagabond shoes are longing to stray

I mentionned our weekend trip was busy, right? Over thirty activities, guided tours and meals at the restaurant in four days – and not enough free time to miss and worry about our spawn (good thing!).

From 2008-10-17_New-York

Our guide helped us discover the library’s architecture, the rejuvenated Grand Central, the paths of Central Park, the antique charm of Harlem, the financial and fashion districts. Our trip also included the ascension of the Empire State Building (yeah, yeah, I know what that reminds you and I’ll come back to it later on) and a “WaterTaxi” cruise at sunset. Between these visits, we used our time to shop a little (alright, a lot) from Chinatown to Tiffany’s (OMG shiny!), get lost in the subway and resort to taxi afterwards, slip into museums, hang out in Times Square and relax at the hotel by following up a swim in the pool with a drink at the bar. All of this scattered with yummy food in a series of nice restaurants, of course (we’ll come back to this in the next post).

From 2008-10-17_New-York

The museums we chose to visit were the Natural History Museum and the Metropolitan. I had already visited the NHM when I was still in high school, but had not appreciated the incredible oldness of the dinosaur bones that fill the top floor. I thought the life experience I gained through all those years would allow me a better comprehension of them. Nah. These fossils are so ancient (millions of years), that it’s impossible to wrap one’s head around their age. (At least, I learned that birds descended from dinosaurs – don’t laugh please – and a little about how animal evolution works.)

From 2008-10-17_New-York

I had better luck with the “younger” artifacts of ancient Egypt over at the Metropolitan Museum. The meticulous work of that people transcended the ages through the hieroglyphs, jewelery and parts of temples imported at the museum. Frank and I have stopped in rooms displaying statues of ancient Rome and Greece as well, and have admired antique Asian marvels, but we would have needed entire days to go through the impressive collection assembled there.

From 2008-10-17_New-York

Of course, some details did not go as planned. Nothing major, but let’s say I would have done without finding out some subway lines did not run on weekends, that The Phantom of the Opera does not play on Sunday night and that my boots aren’t as comfortable as I initially thought – but oh well, two of these minor bugs led to the discovery that taxis in Manhattan offer payment by credit card and Interac, as well as interactive content tv and a type of positioning system “live” via Google Maps at the back.

Am I forgetting something? Oh yeah, my sister Karine will remind me if I forget to mention how was the visit to the Empire State Building. It was… windy. Far more windy than I remember from previous visits. But I don’t think that’s what she wanted to know… When we got to NewYork, our guide made a quick check and evaluated the wait for the ascension would take quite a while. With the group’s ok, he moved the visit to Sunday morning. We could have taken the tickets and gone that evening anyway, but at the cost of two wasted hours, which didn’t interest us much. Still, I had myself a dilemna: I still wanted Frank to be the first to read my little letter (which online publication was set for later that evening) and I didn’t feel like waiting for Sunday to give it to him either. We decided, then, to have dinner at the Hard Rock Cafe that night, and Frank had to pretend we were at over a thousand feet in the air, instead of in the Hard Rock’s underground dining room.

No matter, he was quite happy – and confused, which had me grinning… In ten years, you get to see most emotions pass on a partner’s face, but seeing them moved gets rarer. Frank accepted to wear my little token of love – a little stainless ring – and, when we got back, he offered me one as well. It’s our engagement, without ceremony, without institution or official papers, but personalized to us.

From 2008-10-17_New-York

Oh, and Tal was asking about my favourite part of the trip… That’s a tough one. Besides that romantic dinner, I quite enjoyed the cruise at sunset (the view was superb, despite the cold wind and the overpopulated boat). I also savoured every second of the 3 minutes passed inside the financial district’s Tiffany’s, hehe, and the little drink shared with Frank at the hotel bar after the long Friday.

From 2008-10-17_New-York

Alright, off to bed; another busy day tomorrow, even if it’s at home (and that the creatures with whom I’ll spend it are quite alive, and recent enough).

PS. AAASHH! The news reports a foot of snow in New Jersey today. We were quite lucky weather-wise, it seems.

Free trip to NewYork *

* In pictures. (Muahahaha!)

Our anniversary trip to NewYork was great, without any major bug, without a moment lost, filled with activities and sunny days. What more could we ask for?

It was an organized bus trip (ToursAmerique.com’s La Magie package). It was a good choice, as it saved us from all the organization details and potential problems. The suggested schedule offered various activities; we had planned to attend only a few but, in the end, we followed most of the schedule. This was the 272nd trip to NewYork of the T.A. guide in charge of our group and, with a degree in American history, he knew quite a lot about the city. He offered us many guided tours throughout the weekend, which he animated very well by spicing them up with humor and historical anecdotes. Following the group lowered the intimacy level of the trip a bit, of course, but we learned and discovered loads of things we would have missed by walking around by ourselves. A good choice, then.

I don’t want to ramble it all in the same post, first becaus it will take too long to write, and second because it would be too boring to read. I’ll split the rest of my narrative in 2-3 non-linear posts (activities, food, museums), but for now, I leave you with the photo album. 188 pictures, with comments on almost all of them; enough to re-live the trip with us, if you’d like! You can view the slideshow below, or click to access the whole Picasaweb album directly, with better quality.

(You’ll notice we appear in many of these pictures… We took a page from our friends Amélie and Nicolas’s book on their anniversary trip to Vegas, who took the opportunity to stack up on couple pictures. It’s unavoidable: we take hundreds of pictures of the kids, because they are growing up all the time, but we only appear as secondary characters in them. We told ourselves, then, that it was time to capture our faces in pictures, because we’ll enjoy reviewing them in our older years. Besides, if you’re looking for pictures of Manhattan that are Frank&Emy-free, there’s a gazillion already on the web.)

See you tomorrow, then, and enjoy the show!

1000 feet in the sky

Tonight, we are planning to ascend the Empire State Building just before sunset, and leave only when we will have seen the city lights resist the night’s embrace.

I wrote a short letter for François, which I’m copying it here because, while my love for him is a private matter, it’s not a secret either – and if he gets questions about the accompanying gift, this should answer it. I plan to give him the letter when our feet are over a thousand feet from the ground, so he would have read it at this time (I delayed publication on this post).

October 17, 2008
Hey friend,

In this same city, ten years ago, when we took each other’s hand so as not to get separated in the crowd, I don’t think I knew that we would never let go. Still, there is no one else I would want to stand here with, on the world’s rooftops, at this moment.

In the box, you will find a little piece of metal. A whole decade went by without our exchanging an official promise of infinite love: this engagement developed naturally instead, like two small streams joining and making their way on earth, through the snags and bumps of the landscape, through lush grass banks and storms alike, transforming into a strong and unstoppable river, sparkling in the sun and brimming with life. Our commitment grew by itself.

I love you, I plan to spend my life with you, and it makes me happy. In this special anniversary, then, I believe it is the perfect occasion to tell you, and I offer you a small present. It’s my promise, simple as that; a little reminder of our commitment and of me – this way I’m always with you.

I would be pleased if you accepted to wear it. What do you say?

With all my love,
(except the enormous portion I’m reserving for our kids,
but it could be argued that our children are a living expression of our love,
so it’s all the same really…)

-Émilie

8 months old young lady

I’m 8 months old today! Time to evaluate my performance. (I added comprehensive comments to my grades.)

  • 100% = Sitting upright without support
    (With a few embarrassing fallbacks)
  • 100% = Crawling on my belly
  • 100% = Standing on all 4
  • 20% = Moving on all 4 (no progress)
  • 100% = Climbing up and getting to my knees
  • 100% = Climbing up and standing upright
  • 50% = Moving along the furniture
    (I still need practice to turn corners and move from a piece of furniture to the next)
  • 00% = Walking
  • 50% = Using a sippy cup
    (I love drinking water in a cup…)

To encourage myself, I started today to clap with my little hands. I applaud myself, tee-hee!

I also had extraordinary nights throughout the week – it helps that my teeth are giving me a little break (I have 5 now! 2 down, 3 up). I go to sleep at 8pm and wake only at 5-5:30am, take a bottle in my crib and sleep again until 6:30 – that way, mom got some serious rest for her trip this weekend. Aren’t I nice?

- Lea, 8 months
PS. Breastfeeding is already over. I’ve drank the last of mommy’s milk on October 12. It’s a little sad, but what can we do… I’m growing up. (I bit mommy, too, just in case she was having any regrets.)

RT&CC 7: Ants, TV & languages

Orly has now grown an inch of soft thin and pale hair, which stands straight up on the top of her head. She’s my sweet little chick!

***
E – Xavier, what are you doing there?
X (gets out from behind the bookcase).
E – Get out of there, little man.
X (without a word, slips back into the small space).
E – And of course, in another language, that means “Go back to this place immediately”.

***
(Watching the new 90210 spin-off. One of the teen characters is taking out the trash to the sidewalk.)
E – Check it, the other girl will have stayed there in the street because she doesn’t want to go back home, because her mom’s a drunk.
(The character discovers the other girl asleep in her car in front of his house.)
Friend Phil – (Laugh) I think we’ve watched too many teen series.

***
I’ve gotten an email fwd on the subject of being a mom. There’s a line in it I’ve liked:
Before being a mom…
I hadn’t known the feeling of having my heart on the outside of my chest.

***
The main thing about babies is their lack of spoken communication. What can sometimes be quite maddening when there is no apparent source for incessant crying, can also become frighteningly cute when you realize how much raw emotion appears through their sweet round eyes… and a tiny smile.

***
Desserts must have been invented as bargaining method to make toddlers eat.

***
E – I ordered a copy of the Canadian Food Guide. It’s free on the government site.
F – If we separate from Canada, we’ll have the Quebec Food Guide: poutine, pizza, guedille…

***
Sesame Street on TV. Xavier is in his mute zombie mode, eyes glued to the screen. I’m following the sketch about the word “unanimous” with Elmo, LL Cool J, the garbage puppet and the little girl one.
Suddenly, Xavier surfaces from his televisual torpor and exclaims: “Dirty, dirty, dirty!” while pointing at the garbage puppet.
Apparently, we weren’t focusing on the same thing.

***
While watching “The Besieged Fortress”, France-Quebec production depicting a termites/ants war:
[Note: It's a sort of documentary disguised as a story. It's really well done: images are superb, action is well paced so we don't get bored, and we learn a lot - it helps that they chose nomad ants.]

E – These termites sure aren’t leftists.
F – More like socialists extremists.

I initially thought these nomad carnivorous ants were sort of gross meanies: they eat everything that enters their travel “column”, without leaving crumbs. Then, I realized humans were at least as voracious: they hunt everything. Worst, their food production generates more debris; while the ants can be considered cleaners, in a way, the humans pollute and threaten the ecosystem.
I was a bit more grossed out by the humans than by the carnivorous ants, for a couple seconds, at this moment.
Then, the bugs attacked a snake on screen. Eerch.